Monday, March 1, 2010

Memoir Monday #2 - Home Schooled Kids Are Weird

Believe it or not, I was not born in a cubicle.  There was life before the office and I am sure there will be life after the office.  Inspired by Travis over at I Like To Fish I have decided to hop on his ever expanding bandwagon and sometimes replace my usual Manic Monday post with something called a Memoir Monday.  But it will not just be any story about my past.  True to form, all of these posts will be about a job I have held in the past, be it paid or volunteer.


My parents were (and still are) pretty cool people. Which is why at the age of 10 when I said I wanted to volunteer at the historical village (think Williamsburg) a few towns over, they said "okay".  So we convinced my grandmother to make me an outfit only an Ingalls would be jealous of and I went to work.  It was pretty sweet.  I got to churn butter, stitch quilts, and become quite proficient with a hoop and stick.   I enjoyed it so much I stayed on for nearly 7 years. (Plus it looked pretty sweet on a college application.)  And during that time, aside from learning a lot about the settling of Illinois, I also learned that there are no weirder children in the world than those that are home schooled.

I would say about 40% of the kids and teens who volunteered there were home schooled.  And kudos to their parents for getting them out of the "classroom" and into a semi social environment.  But perhaps a fake village where all people do is pretend to be from another time isn't the best way to introduce them to reality....

As you may have picked up from reading this blog, I can be a little, um, sarcastic.  I can also be somewhat of a bully.  It's not like I set out to be mean, but like a shark that smells blood in the water I attack when I smell weakness in another human.

So imagine the torture I inflicted upon kids who, in the late 90's, has never heard of Nirvana, South Park, or Loveline.  Kids who talked about how much fun their parents made algebra.  Kids who spent their weekends volunteering with the elderly and their best friend was their Golden Retriever, Mollie.

Sure, the kids were nice, but they lived in a little bubble where the only people they knew were other home schooled kids.

It was during my tenure at the village that I learned what the term "socially retarded" meant.

For example:

Whenever we had visitors in the house we had to stay in character and talk about like in the 1830's (I worked in the log house).  As soon as the people would leave, us volunteers would close the door and chat like any other group of teens.  Except for the home schooled kids.  Even when there was no one else in the house, they stayed in character.  (I know, how very method of them.)

I would start talking about the movie I saw the night before or how I was at a school dance.  The home schooled kid would act astonished and ask in a British accent (because homesteaders in northern Illinois sounded like the Beatles?) what a movie was.  Or how they enjoyed a good evening around the fire, darning socks while Pa read to them from the Bible.

The best part was sometimes, we weren't sure if that's actually what the had done the night before or if they were just reciting something from "Little House in the Big Woods".

So parents, I don't care how bad you think your local schools are, send your kids.  You can help them with their school work but you are useless when it comes to helping them form social skills.  I mean, what's the point of being a genius straight A student who graduates from Harvard in 2 years if you can't use it to get laid?

~ The Office Scribe

I know this title alone is going to bring the fury should the parents who decided to home school their children ever stumble across this page.  But guess what, I don't care.  Would you preform a complicated medical procedure on child?  Chances are no, you wouldn't.  And why?  Because chances are you are not a licensed medical professional.  So I ask: Why do you think you have the skills to teach your kid anything past coloring within the lines and nap time?

11 comments:

Genesis said...

two thumbs up! totally agree that kids who are home-schooled are really socially retarded. no way around it.

Aimee said...

Fuck you and the horse you rode in on. My homeskooled kids are the mutha-fuckin bomb, bitch. And they'd kick your ass.

Okay, seriously...Everyone forms their opinion based on their own life experiences, but the truth of the matter is that basic 12-grade edumacation ain't brain surgery, my friend. Actually, in point of fact, it's kinda sad and a little pathetic. I'd love to show you my source, but I'm actually supposed to be working right now....However, it has been deduced that a basic education from K through 12 grade is approximately 100 hours of instruction. The rest of it is PE, bathroom breaks, lunch, band, and bullshit.

That being said, there are tons of homeschooled kids who are weird. There are tons of public schooled kids who are weird. There are tons of homeschooled kids who are dumb as a box of rocks. There are tons of public schooled kids who can't spell their damn name.

There's also a fast-growing population of us purple-haired, Perry Ferrel lovin', socially fucked up 90s parents who are producing kick-ass homeschooled kids who can rock a college English class as well as they can rock level 80 on World of Warcraft or their mad self-taught guitar skillz. So suck it. And junk.

Travis said...

Jesus H. Christ.

Way to stir up some shit, darlin!

I had a best friend who was home schooled growing up. He was just flat retarded at times. However, he had a BB gun, and I loved him for that.

Then I knew a kid who went from home schooled to public, and now I'm pretty sure he's smoking meth out of a beer can that he holds his weed in.

So. I guess it can go either way!

Also, bonus points for mentioning Nirvana, SP and Loveline!

The Princess of Sarcasm said...

I know a kid that is being homeschooled by her high school drop out mother. Seriously. WTF?! Now I have another friend who is very smart and takes her homeschooling seriously. I would have HATED being homeschooled as a child. But that's just me....

Just curious...did you lose any followers today?

Aimee said...

It's all out of love, dear ;)

More than likely, you gained a new reader rather than lost one, not that you care after my ridiculous tongue-lashing.

If you're a crime fiction fan, you're welcome to check out my kid's short stories http://detectivemiller.blogspot.com

Erika said...

I loved this post! Spot on with the kids I knew that were home schooled.

As with everything I think there are exceptions to the rule but I really think lots of parents fall into homeschooling for some lack luster reasons, like their kid really needs to focus on their figure skating career or the need to COMPLETELY and UTTERLY shelter them from ANYTHING they could possibly do "wrong" in their childhood...like they aren't going to then totally freak the hell out when they hit the morality free zone that college can be.

Daffy said...

I thought it was hilarious! People should get a sense of humor....there are social retarted kids in the public school system too.....they don't get laid either....

GREAT Memoir!

The Office Scribe said...

Wow. I totally wish I could comment on my blog from work.

But I can't.

dadadadio said...

I knew you were a snarky bully just waiting for some poor kid to expose his milk money. I knew it.

Some of those home schooled kids just got out of jail in Haiti after their child smuggling ring was busted up.

The Office Scribe said...

dadadadio - You comment had me in a fit of giggles.

My mom told me the reason she didn't get me a Haitian orphan for my birthday was that she didn't believe in buying stolen merchandise.

Ed said...

I so got a thing for Laura Ingalls.

Partly what attracted me to my wife was their resemblance.

Our Pioneer village is Connor's Prairie. I've always wondered about those kids that work there.